Yesterday, it hit me: 2025 is just two weeks away. As I reflected on the past 12 months, this Chinese proverb came to mind:
Yesterday, it hit me: 2025 is just two weeks away. As I reflected on the past 12 months, this Chinese proverb came to mind:

“Do not fear slow progress—only fear standing still.”

Too often, I slip into the familiar pattern of self-criticism, especially as a cisgender woman, a second-born child of immigrant parents, and someone who has often been on the margins. The expectations and double standards placed on us can make self-compassion difficult to cultivate. I know you've had these moments as well. But the truth is, progress is progress, no matter how slow it may feel — and it's worth celebrating.

So, I'm actively resisting the trap of self-doubt that can hold me back. I invite you to do the same. Progress, however small, moves us forward. And we've moved plenty in 2024. Let's celebrate!

Take a moment before next week to honor your journey. List what you HAVE accomplished this year, this week, even today. Instead of dwelling on what’s next, create a “done” list—and keep it in sight. Even better, share it here, so we can all celebrate you. Celebrate your wins, big or small, because every step forward is worth recognizing.

When you honor your growth, you set the stage for more.